What’s your story, what is it you’re telling yourself, what are the dominant thoughts?
Where do you default to when not focusing on a task. What is the central theme of your thinking, struggle, ease, lack, abundance, failure, success, joy. Whatever it is will become your experience.
Describe the most enjoyable and adventurous story to yourself and that will be the experience. Set goals that bring those ideas out into the world. Open the mind, read and explore widely, entertain big ideas. Enjoy all the same sorts of successes and failures but this time they are all contributing to something outstanding. One single decision can ripple out into a completely new life, it could happen today!